Add Pulumi for tailnet IaC management (#15)

## Summary
- Manage tail8d86e.ts.net ACLs, tags, and DNS via Pulumi + Python
- State stored in Pulumi Cloud (free tier) to avoid circular dependency
- OAuth authentication via 1Password for secure credential management
- New mise tasks: `tailnet-preview`, `tailnet-up`

## Architecture
Two-layer approach:
- **Layer 1 (Pulumi)**: Tailnet-wide config (ACLs, tags, DNS)
- **Layer 2 (Ansible)**: Node-local `tailscale serve` config (unchanged)

## Test plan
- [x] Exported current ACL from Tailscale API
- [x] Imported existing ACL into Pulumi state
- [x] Verified `mise run tailnet-preview` shows no changes
- [x] Verified `mise run tailnet-up` applies successfully

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Reviewed-on: https://forge.tail8d86e.ts.net/eblume/blumeops/pulls/15

ansible/roles/tailscale_serve/defaults/main.yml

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+---
+# Tailscale serve configuration for this host
+# Each service maps a Tailscale service name to local endpoints
+
+tailscale_services:
+  - name: svc:grafana
+    https:
+      port: 443
+      upstream: http://localhost:3000
+
+  - name: svc:forge
+    https:
+      port: 443
+      upstream: http://localhost:3001
+    tcp:
+      port: 22
+      upstream: tcp://localhost:2200
+
+  - name: svc:kiwix
+    https:
+      port: 443
+      upstream: http://localhost:5501
+
+  - name: svc:pypi
+    https:
+      port: 443
+      upstream: http://127.0.0.1:3141

ansible/roles/tailscale_serve/meta/main.yml

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+---
+dependencies:
+  - role: grafana
+  - role: forgejo
+  - role: kiwix
+  - role: devpi

ansible/roles/tailscale_serve/tasks/main.yml

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+---
+- name: Get current tailscale serve status
+  ansible.builtin.command: tailscale serve status --json
+  register: serve_status
+  changed_when: false
+
+- name: Configure HTTPS services
+  ansible.builtin.command: >
+    tailscale serve --service="{{ item.name }}"
+    --https={{ item.https.port }} {{ item.https.upstream }}
+  loop: "{{ tailscale_services }}"
+  when: item.https is defined
+  register: https_result
+  changed_when: "'already serving' not in https_result.stderr | default('')"
+  failed_when: false
+
+- name: Configure TCP services
+  ansible.builtin.command: >
+    tailscale serve --service="{{ item.name }}"
+    --tcp={{ item.tcp.port }} {{ item.tcp.upstream }}
+  loop: "{{ tailscale_services }}"
+  when: item.tcp is defined
+  register: tcp_result
+  changed_when: "'already serving' not in tcp_result.stderr | default('')"
+  failed_when: false